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More detailed statements will be taken from you. If there are any injuries these may be photographed by a Police photographer – again you can request a female photographer. The doctor will advise you on getting tested for pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases. You can request a female doctor or your own GP if he or she is trained in forensic practice. The Chaperone will then go with you to the Victim Examination Suite as you will need to be examined by a doctor for evidence and samples will need to be taken which will include samples of saliva urine, blood, pubic hair, swabs will need to be taken from the mouth, rectum and vagina. You can request a female or male officer to talk to. You will be asked to make a statement but the Police at this stage will not expect you to talk in detail and you will be allocated a police officer who will act as Chaperone and be the contact person to keep you advised of the progress of the case. It is a good idea as well to take with you a change of clothes. If you decide to report this crime try to take someone you trust with you to the Police Station. Some feel that by reporting this they are doing something positive in order to help the Police to put the abuser away where he cannot repeat his crime and not allowing him to do what he/she has done and get away with it, but others may feel that they do not want to take that action – you need to do what you feel is best for you. It may help to talk this through with someone you trust or a Helpline but ultimately the decision is yours. It is each individual’s choice whether to report the offence to Police or not and nobody can or should make that choice for you. There are Helplines which will give information, help and support: SupportLine keeps details of Helplines and Rape Crisis Centres throughout the UK and can be contacted on 01708 765200 or by email to if at all possible not to wash or change clothes as this could destroy vital evidence. Shock can affect people in different ways and for this reason it is good to have someone you can trust with you. Try and get as much support and help as you can even if in the first instance this is just a friend to sit with you so you are not alone.
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You will have many decisions to make but try to stay in control of making those decisions as and when you want. People can be very well meaning and try to push you in one direction or another, may try to make decisions for you, may tell you how you should or shouldn’t behave. Rape is very much about another person having control over you, so try and regain some sense of control in your life in the aftermath of rape.
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Trauma can affect people in different ways, some people may become withdrawn, depressed, want to be alone, isolate themselves, others may have panic attacks and be full of fear not wanting to go out, some may carry on with normal everyday life, seemingly as if nothing has happened, others may display anger and aggression, - all this is normal – there is no right way or wrong way to be after rape – you behave how you need to in order to get through – and you need to do what feels right for you. There are so many feelings to deal with which can often seem overwhelming – fear, anger, confusion, numbness, difficulty in making decisions, shock, rage, disbelief, panic. Rape and sexual assault can happen to anybody and can affect victims in so many ways. You cannot allow your life and happiness to be destroyed by someone who has no respect or care for his/her victim. As every rape victim will know, there will be good and bad days but the abuser is worth nothing if he/she can inflict this ultimate degradation on another human being. However, victims can and do get through this trauma which takes enormous strength and a very positive state of mind, but it is possible to move forward with your life without the rape affecting your every day living. This is such a despicable, horrible crime, which can have lasting consequences for the victim. I hope this section will be of some help and support to anyone who has been a victim of rape or sexual assault and anyone caring for them. SupportLine itself is urgently in need of funds to enable us to keep providing support for victims of abuse. Some areas of the country are well covered with support services while other areas have little or no services and many services have long waiting lists. More funding needs to be put into services providing help and support for victims of rape.